Oh dear......it's not a difficult job to do yourself with basic tools.
Stop playing the girly card and man up woman as it not cool trying to do this.
IMHO if you cannot do basic maintance and repairs on a car.......a license shouldn't be issued
If you don't trust your garage to do a basic repair find one you do or even better learn how to do it yourself!
Oh ........cars are all ways female by the way!